29 April 2008

"You're the angry one!"

Okay. So back in September Macy brought home a family drawing (red ink) from preschool. The expression on my face in the sketch was quite accurate for that particular phase of her 3 1/2 year old life.

She had drawn many other pictures of us, but none like the one she brought home about 3 weeks ago (purple ink). I said, "Oh, Macy. Who's who?" to which she replied, "Daddy's the fun, happy one, I'm the small one and you are the angry one."

Nice.

I guess the parent who gives the most time-outs and says, "Stop!" and "Now, Macy" ends up being thought of as 'the angry one.' She could tell I didn't want to be the angry one, so she drew a happy mommy to put over the angry one (sketch on notebook paper below).

That was sweet of her. But that doesn't mean I'm looking forward to the next family portrait. I'm just sayin'











21 April 2008

Say Cheeeeth!

I guess it was just a matter of time. Macy had her first visit to the E.R. last night. Before you read on.... she's ok. If she were not, I probably wouldn't be blogging right now.

Here's what happened...
We were enjoying having Small Group at Heidi and Brandon's. The weather was nice, so the kids were playing outside for a few minutes. On their way back to the play room, Macy's mouth got up close and personal with the corner of their coffee table-at high speed. She bounced off of it right into Bryan's arms. I was in the restroom at the time but once I heard the thud and screaming, I knew it was Mace.

By the time I got to her, Bryan had her in the kitchen. Blood was all over her mouth and hands, and Bryan. As we looked closer once the crying slowed down, we saw the cut on her face just below her bottom lip. Then I saw that 3 of her top/front teeth were bent back in her gum at a 45 degree angle. We got in the car and got to the E.R. rather swiftly (if you know Bryan, you know that it was a little quicker than "swiftly").

Everyone there was great, better than we expected. The doctor moved her teeth back into place. She did not like that very much. She was so brave and still for her 2 stitches. She was the ideal patient, until we got home of course. But we have spoiled her with anything she wants that she can suck up a straw and any story and any toy and any movie... you get the picture.

The dentist that we visited this morning said we have to come back Thursday to get one of the teeth pulled. She will have a cute little smile until her permanent teeth come in, in only 3 years or so. Her permanent teeth are fine according to the Xray. I asked if they could put a little false tooth there, you know, Flava Flav style, but she said no dice. The fake baby teeth usually look bad and cause a lot of plaque build up on the other teeth they are anchored to.

So now, her lips are swollen and hamburgered and her mouth hurts a little. We are keeping Motrin in her to reduce the swelling. I think the number of jello and pudding cups in our kitchen is at an all-time high.

These pictures are of days one (right after we got home from the E.R.) and two (silly bath time). She is a trooper and sweetie. Her smile will be a little different for a while, at least for a 4-year-old. I do have to say her little lisp is cute. I feel so bad for her. She said she was scared that her school friends would think her smile wasn't pretty.... at 4... how can all that start so soon? All I know is that if I hear on ONE kid giving her a hard time, Bryan will have to hold me back from kicking a little preschool bootie. I'm justht thayin'

01 March 2008

Far More Than Rubies

To go even higher on the "Great Dads of the World" list, Bryan got up around 4:15am and held a spot in line for Champions for Children, a wonderful Pre-K program. The doors opened at 8am. Bryan was first in line and guaranteed one of the two spots available for the Macy to attend this school in the Fall. Oh, did I mention the spot he secured for her is FREE (thank you state funding!)!!???!? This means free school/childcare for Macy 5 days a week from 8am-2:30pm.

Yeah me! This means I will be able to get a job. I have missed working outside the home, but I'm sure I will miss Mace much more in the coming school year as her brain grows (barring any paste eating episodes).

Thanks, Babe, for loving your little girl that much especially in a world where some dads won't even get off of the couch for their kids. You are teaching her she is worth far more than rubies.

Other Stuff
Big Bargain: We went to a huge book sale this morning put on by the local library. All the books you can put into a paper grocery bag for $7. 43 books for $14 - not bad!

Possible New Addiction: I got my first massage yesterday. We have a friend who is attending school to become a massage therapist and she needed to get some more hours in so, bless my heart, I helped her out. She was born to do this. It was wonderful. That new job in the Fall can't get here fast enough. I would love to do this once a month at least.

Household Hint: To keep shirts from slipping off of their hangers, run a bead of hot glue along the edge of the shoulder area of the hanger. Allow the glue to dry. Sorry I felt that necessary to include. I'm just sayin'.